TRANScend GENDER

This is a blog from a MySpace friend of mine.  She or rather He is also a real life friend of mine. We see each other once in a while if we hit the same bar. But I can say he is an honest and fun person to be around. Yes the center of attention [...]

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Is it me or is it just me?
It seems like my dating pool just gets smaller every day.
42 yo …. -35% of population
Lesbian  …. -50% of population
Transsexual  …. - 95% of population
Pre-Op ….. -15% of population
Pagan / Non Christian …. - 60% of population
Loves Heavy Metal …. -12% of population
Highly intelligent …. -8% of population
Tormented [...]

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I just recieved a letter from my mommy. It was a little hard and wierd but not unusual for a TS to deal with. I was hoping for some advice before I respond to her. I want to help my family get through this. I know they are hurting and confused, but are fully supportive. [...]

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I am a happy woman.. well still just a gurl with so much to learn and experience. I feel like a teenager. I feel so much more than I ever did before. And I still have a long way to go in my transition. When I say transition it is not just the physical [...]

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I live in a very “white bread” townhouse complex in Del Mar, CA (until September when the lease runs out). This is a very affluent area of California. And way too expensive. There are lots of kids and young professionals in my area. The kind of area you would think has mostly educated folk. Apparently [...]

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Calpernia is such a beautiful woman… inside and out. This is a great set of educational videos for everyone. There are several really nice videos. I will be suggesting my family see them. I know most of us know who Calpernia is. But for those that do not.
Born as a male in Nashville, TN, [...]

Filed under: Education | Tagged: Calpernia Adams, Education, Reach out, Transgender, Video | 7 Comments »

The most amazing thing happened this morning. My younger brother called… to tell me he loved me accepted me after he found out who I am.
I am blessed. The Gift.

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The odyssey / saga continues. I am SO blessed. My family has already gotten back to me again tonight restating their love and support. I am about in tears. I think i have lost all the words to describe how I feel right now.
God How I wish everyone was received this openly. With ALL my [...]

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The deed is done. I am relieved and drained mentally. One of many hurdles in my life has been jumped. I will continue this blog as life unfolds after “Telling Mom and Dad”.
Blessings to all’
Nichole
nikkidreams.com

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Joy are the words of a happy heart.
Sorrow is the song of a broken heart.
Fear is the prison of a lonely heart.
And life is the story of a loving heart.
A heart with no tale has yet to live.
Hearts with no joy have never loved.
Awe is the mood of the heart that brings life.
Reflection is the [...]

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